In love... there is conflict.

In love... there is confrontation.

In love... there is compromise.

I have learned that there is always a balance in between those three aspects of a good relationship. There is this understanding that a couple should learn how the other thinks by telling them what exactly is on your mind.

Do not keep things hanging or else there will be misunderstanding.

I learned that the hard way, unfortunately.

So in hiding... there came, conflict. The sudden halt in communication, I can scarcely say, have made everything worst. I admit, it was my fault--completely. But then again, I am overly emotional at times. It's like I'm a pregnant woman getting ready to kick someone's ass without consequence.

Maybe it's because I'm Cancer.

Lol. I'm blaming my Zodiac. What the hell? Haha.

But you know... when conflict arises, there is this thing we call confrontation. When this specific phase comes up, all the troubles and confusions and everything else... this is the time where you guys would have to talk it out. Be it an incomplete thought or a bulldozer of ideas, at least you've let your significant other know the problem.

This is something I have troubles with sometimes--more on shyness, I guess.

Then the last one would be compromise. It is where the "kiss-and-make-outup" comes along.

That would be my favorite part of the cycle cos you get to finally let out your feelings and you both know about the situation already. So ain't that just awesome? Haha. Well. After this, at least the relationship grows stronger.

... or we'll hope it will.

So today was a day of mixed emotions.

And now, I'm talking to Bee on the phone thingymajig on YM. Squee.

Off to sleep in a while. Ciao.

Kisses.